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Fulfillment of Desires or Eternal Bliss

 

 

یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں

In Surah An-Nāzi‘āt, God draws a clear contrast between two paths a person can choose. One side includes those who go beyond limits and follow their desires without restraint. The other side features those who fear standing before their Lord and prefer the Hereafter over the temporary pleasures of this world. This timeless comparison acts as a mirror for us: which qualities influence our daily choices?

The Two Traits of the Misguided

The Qur’an points out two main tendencies that misguide people.

  1. Transgressing limits—crossing boundaries set by God and conscience, whether in pursuit of power, wealth, or self-indulgence.
  2. Following desires blindly—making choices driven by impulses or short-term satisfaction without considering consequences or moral responsibility.

These traits are not exclusive to ancient societies. They are evident today in unchecked consumerism, dishonest dealings, and the normalization of instant gratification.

The Two Traits of the Guided

In contrast, the righteous are characterized by two inspiring qualities:

  1. Awareness of accountability—they live with the understanding that one day they will face God. This awareness serves as an inner compass, guiding their decisions.
  2. Preferring the Hereafter—they evaluate every decision based on eternal success, willingly sacrificing temporary benefits for lasting gains.

This orientation does not mean totally abandoning worldly life. Instead, it means that faith and responsibility influence everyday decisions: in business, family, and social interactions.

From Awareness to Change

Once we understand these four distinctions between the people of God’s Paradise and those of Hellfire, it becomes natural to recognize our current state and then intentionally begin moving toward our goals. It will be a gradual process of change, likely involving the following steps:

  • Awareness: recognizing when our actions are motivated by desires instead of principles.
  • Small steps: substituting one bad habit at a time with a healthier choice.
  • Consistency: developing the habit of prioritizing eternal values in daily life—what we eat, how we earn, how we speak, and how we treat others.

Over time, consistent effort builds a character grounded in honesty and responsibility.

 

 

Reflection: Where Do I Stand?

Surah An-Nāzi‘āt highlights four key qualities: two of misguidance and two of guidance. Reflect on each to determine where you stand.

The Misguided Traits

  1. Transgressing limits
  • Do I knowingly violate the moral or ethical boundaries established by God and conscience?
  • Are there parts of my life where I justify wrong actions?
    1. Following desires blindly
  • How often do I let impulse, comfort, or peer pressure decide for me?
  • What desires most frequently override my conscience?

 

The Guided Traits

  1. Awareness of accountability before God
  • Do I live with the feeling that I will soon stand before God?
  • Does this awareness influence how I speak, earn, spend, or treat others?
    1. Prioritizing the Hereafter
  • When faced with a choice between short-term benefits and eternal success, which one do I usually choose?
  • Which recent decision of mine shows a preference for the Hereafter?

 

How to Use This Exercise

  • Keep a private journal of your answers and review them regularly to monitor your progress.
  • Pick a small area where you want to move from “desire” to “eternity.”
  • Each night, reflect on your choices: “Which side did I strengthen today?”

 

Conclusion

Life is a sequence of daily choices. Each decision either fuels desire or deepens awareness of eternity. Surah An-Nāzi‘āt reminds us that true success goes to those who focus their hearts on the Hereafter, not just worldly gains. The real challenge is to let that focus influence every small act—until choosing eternity over desire becomes natural.

 

 

یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں

He prayed regularly, gave charity, and fasted. Everyone who knew him thought of him as a devout and model Muslim. Life went smoothly, and God was kind to him.

One day, however, he experienced a significant setback in his business. Although visibly worried, he remained humble and reassured himself and others that God would soon help solve his problems. Shortly afterward, a family member fell ill. His prayers grew longer, his pleas more frantic and earnest.

But when nothing seemed to change, questions began to trouble his heart: Why is God not listening to me? Why has He turned away from me? What did I do to deserve this indifference? His internal dialogue grew harsher, along with his displeasure. Slowly, complaints started to form in his heart.

Deep inside, he had expected that these acts of worship would guarantee him a life of ease and protection — that his faithfulness to God would be repaid with worldly comfort. For him, faith was like a contract: “I serve God, He would give me what I want.” His prayers grow more intense, his pleas louder — but when the outcomes remain unchanged, his heart darkens. He begins to feel abandoned: “If God won’t protect me after all my worship, what is the point?”

This is what the Qur’an describes:

“Some people worship God [as if standing] on an edge. If they benefit, they are satisfied with Him, but if they face a trial, they turn around. [By doing so,] they lost the [life of this] world and the hereafter. That, indeed, is an evident loss.” (Al-Hajj 22:11)

The Qur’an also critiques this fragile, transactional approach.

Whoever [despairs of God’s mercy and] thinks that God will not help him in this world or the hereafter should find means to reach the heavens, sever [his connection with God], and then see if his plan relieves his frustration. (Al-Hajj 22:15)

When faith becomes just a tool for worldly success, it turns shallow and fragile. The first disappointment shatters it.

A Different Attitude

True servitude to God is not a transaction to achieve desirable outcomes, but about aligning our responses to His will. Life is a test, not a bargain. The purpose of prayer, patience, and gratitude is not to secure specific worldly results, but to elevate the soul and prepare for eternal success.

This requires a different perspective — the Lens of Faith — through which every event, whether joy or pain, is seen as part of God’s merciful, wise, all-knowing, and all-powerful plan.

Why We Need a Different Approach

Life constantly presents us with challenges — illness, unfair treatment, accidents, disappointments. On the surface, these seem like results of our own or others’ choices or random chance. A boss insults us, a family member hurts us, a driver causes an accident. Instinctively, we focus on the “actor” in front of us.

But faith encourages us to look more deeply. The Qur’an tells us that nothing reaches us except by God’s permission, and that His knowledge, wisdom, mercy, and power support every situation. If this is true, then the true test is not “Why did they do this?” but “How do I respond to God in this moment?”

This is the Lens of Faith — to see every event as ultimately an interaction with the Divine, not just with people.

The Director and the Actors

Imagine life as a grand play. The people around us are actors delivering their lines — some kind, some harsh, some unfair. But the Director is God, who allows certain scenes to unfold in a way that tests and trains us.

When I focus only on the actors, I get caught up in anger, blame, or revenge. But when I remember the Director, my attention shifts: “This scene was written into my life for a purpose. What response will please Him?”

The Paradigm Behind the Lens

To view life through the Lens of Faith is to remember that:

  • A merciful God governs all. His focus is on our eternal salvation, not temporary comfort.
  • A wise God never allows an event without purpose, even when His wisdom is concealed from us.
  • An all-knowing God observes not just what occurs but also our inner motives and struggles.
  • An all-powerful God guarantees that nothing and no one can surpass His will.

Nothing can happen without His permission — and nothing receives His permission unless His mercy, knowledge, wisdom, and power enable it.

What Does Response Mean?

Response does not imply passivity. It means:

  • Remaining within moral and legal limits, even when provoked.
  • Choosing forgiveness when possible, understanding that God values those who trust Him with their concerns.
  • Maintaining gratitude even during difficult times, trusting in God’s blessings that may still be hidden.
  • Seeking correction when we fall short — asking for forgiveness, reflecting on why we reacted poorly, and preparing better for next time.

The Qur’an frames it beautifully:

If you choose to retaliate, do so only to the extent you are wronged; however, if you persevere patiently [instead of retaliating], it will be much better for those who remain patient. Be patient. You can only be patient with God’s help (Al-Nahl 16:126)

Internal Dialogue: Training the Heart

The Lens of Faith is not adopted once and for all — it is cultivated through inner dialogue.

  • Whisper to yourself during moments, big or small.
         This, too, comes from God. I must respond to Him.
  • Do this in everyday inconveniences: traffic delays, minor illnesses, a harsh word.
  • Over time, this dialogue becomes second nature — a protective shield against despair and resentment.

Faith then stops being just an abstract belief and turns into an interpretive lens, shaping every moment of life.

A Shift in What Matters

When I wear this lens:

  • My goal shifts from controlling outcomes to honoring God through my response.
  • I do not measure success in worldly results, but in the integrity of my attitude.
  • Pain becomes bearable because it is not wasted; it serves as a doorway to purification and eternal reward.

As the Prophet ﷺ said:

“No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that God expiates some of his sins for that.” (Bukhari, Muslim)

What this hadith means is that such trials, in and of themselves, are not automatically a source of reward. Instead, it is the believer’s response to them — patience, gratitude, and turning to God — that results in either the addition of good deeds or the wiping away of sins. The event is the test; the reward depends on how one endures and reacts to it.

Practicing the Lens of Faith

Daily Micro-Exercise:

  1. At night, reflect on a challenging moment from your day.
  2. Ask: “What if I had seen this as a transaction with God?”
  3. Notice the difference between your current response and the response you aim for.
  4. End with a dua: “God, help me see every moment through the lens of my faith in Your mercy, wisdom, power, and knowledge.”

This simple practice can reprogram the heart and keep you grounded in hope, patience, and gratitude.

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Reflection Exercise for You

Spend a few calm minutes with pen and paper.

  1. Recall a positive and a negative event from the past few days.
  2. Write down your immediate reflex response and feelings at the moment.
  3. Now, view those events through the Lens of Faith — remembering that a merciful, wise, all-knowing, all-powerful God allowed them for your growth and eternal success.

Now reflect:

  • How does this new construction influence your feelings about the event?
  • What difference do you notice between your reflexive reaction and your renewed, faith-based response?
  • In your opinion, how could your life change if you viewed it through the lens of faith?

(Readers are requested and encouraged to share their experiences in the comments below).