Entries by Moiz Amjad

Learning to Stay in My Domain

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں I said it almost helplessly, one day, when a close relative’s diagnosis had just come to light. “It feels impossible not to think about it,” I said. “Every time I close my eyes, my mind runs ahead. What if this happens? What if that happens? Where will […]

Gratitude and Complaint

        یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں I still remember sitting with him that afternoon, feeling frustrated about the things in my life that weren’t moving the way I had hoped. He listened quietly, letting me speak until my words slowed down. Then he asked gently, “Can I show you something?” I nodded. […]

Why Sharing Experiences Matters

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں I sat in the session with my notebook open, listening, but feeling torn inside. A question had been circling in my mind for days, and when the facilitator invited comments, I finally allowed it to surface. “I listen to the recorded sessions,” I said hesitantly. “They help […]

The Space Where Accountability Lives

    یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں I sat across from him and finally said what had been on my mind for days: “I don’t understand why I’m held responsible for anything. Isn’t everything determined? My upbringing, my temperament, my reactions—they all come from conditioning. So what part is really my choice?” He looked at […]

Living Under Threat — Without Losing Purpose

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں I spoke quietly, but the question had been pressing on me for days. “Everywhere I look,” I said, “there is destruction. News alerts, images, numbers, breaking headlines. Some people around me joke about it, as if it’s nothing. Others are so disturbed that they can barely get […]

Learning Without Beating Yourself Up

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں “I listened to your lecture twice,” I said hesitantly. “And when you talked about validation and childhood… I kept thinking about myself. No one pressured me as a child. No one told me I had to compete. Yet inside, I constantly feel that I must prove myself. […]

The Courage to Be a Learner

    یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں   I was complaining again—about mistakes, about how hard it was to guide others when I myself felt unsure so often. He listened quietly, the way he always did, without interrupting. After a pause, he said something that shifted the entire conversation. “The most important place where we […]

Forcing a Seed to become a Tree

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں   “I worry all the time that I’m doing too little,” I said as we watched a toddler wobbling near the park bench. “What if I don’t push enough? What if I fall behind in shaping my child?” He watched the child quietly for a few moments […]

Progress That Only God Sees

      یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں   “It feels different now,” I said quietly as we sat stuck at a traffic signal, horns blaring all around us. “I don’t feel like I’m just dealing with people anymore. I feel like I’m transacting with God.” He turned toward me, listening carefully. “When you see […]

The Fear Beneath the Need to Be the Best

    یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں   “I haven’t submitted the assignment yet,” I said quietly. “It’s been ready for days… almost.” He looked at me with a knowing expression. “Almost ready,” he repeated gently. “Or not perfect enough?” I didn’t answer immediately. The truth was uncomfortable. “I just don’t want to look incompetent,” […]