یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں In professional and social environments, people are often encouraged to project confidence—sometimes even more than they truly possess. The logic seems simple: in competitive spaces, those who appear self-assured are more likely to be noticed, trusted, and given opportunities. Yet beneath this dynamic lies a deeper question: is projecting […]
یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں We slip into comparison almost without noticing. A cousin’s promotion, a friend’s talented child, a sibling’s “perfect” life—each becomes a yardstick against which we measure ourselves. Yet the very premise is flawed: human beings are not comparable. Each person’s strengths, limits, and life path are uniquely woven—and much of […]
یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں In everyday life, many of us find ourselves entangled in subtle rivalries, particularly within families. Among siblings, conversations that begin innocently can easily slip into comparisons and self-bragging. One brother praises his son’s academic success, another highlights his daughter’s achievements, and before long, the gathering becomes a competition stage. […]
یہ مضمون اردہ میں پڑھیں In today’s world, we often hear schools, universities, training institutes, and even religious organizations discussing character building. Yet, on closer inspection, much of what is offered under this banner is not actual character development—it is personality development. Though the two are related, they are not the same. Understanding their […]
یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں Periods of deep learning and reflection often bring with them a kind of silence. When the mind is absorbed in new insights, a person may naturally become quieter, preferring thought over constant speech. This silence, however, is not always easy to carry in social or professional settings. Others may […]
یہ مضمون اردو میں پڑھیں Many people face moments when life changes suddenly — an accident, an illness, or a loss that shakes everything. In those moments, it is easy to ask “Why me?” or to believe that hardship must be a punishment. Yet, faith teaches a different perspective: life in its entirety is […]
Download in PDF format Introduction Why is it that even after reading about Emotional Intelligence and agreeing with it, one does not become emotionally intelligent? Why do team coordination, coherence, and performance not improve consistently after attending workshop sessions on such topics? Why do almost 90% of training workshops conducted for individuals or groups and […]
OVERTURNING OUR
“IMMUNITY TO CHANGE”
Introduction After completing a training workshop[1], invariably I get calls from participants who express concern about why they tend to ignore practicing the different concepts they have learned, even after comprehending them and agreeing with them. For instance, they would ask why they face difficulty in practicing the various guidelines of “effective conversations” or “expressing […]
In the following video, I have very briefly introduced the projects that I have outlined for myself. Please spare some time to see and leave your comments and questions, if any. اس ویڈیو میں، میں نے مختصر الفاظ میں اپنے پیِش نظر کاموں کا تعارف کرایا ہے۔ آپ سے گزارش ہے کہ کچھ وقت نکال […]
Read First Part Read Previous Part “What about imagination?” I asked. “How can that be helpful in replacing any of our habits?” “To understand the importance of imagination in helping us overcome and alter any of the habits that we feel are undesirable, due to any reason, we will need to briefly understand some relevant […]